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Hi Jared, love this, can’t wait to read more.

I’m interested, how do you reconcile the idea of Rachel as an identitarian cypher if Melissa Broder is also Jewish, queer, anorexic? (I toe the line at describing Rachel as abused by her mother overall, just because I think we actually are supposed to feel some kind of perverted pleasure in the fact the way Rachel sees herself, as she does, and I think the novel portrays Rachel's relationship with her mother as something more than abusive, as many complex family dynamics are. This is not an endorsement of Rachel's awful mother!) Sometimes I feel like a lot of these kinds of critiques are enacting a kind of Red Scare mindset — coming from such a place of bad faith as to think that nobody could possibly have genuine affinity for or solidarity with an identity bloc. I am sick of identity politics the same as anyone, but I also feel that many class reductionist arguments of culture — or even just arguments that attempt to chalk representation up to "box-ticking" — lately ignore the fact that people just have deep connections to their identity, especially ethnic and racial.

Sorry, this is veering into annoying comment territory: I got the sense that Broder understood intimately — as in, had NO distance from — the eating disorder bits, but also I’m extremely interested in your characterisation of Rachel as a pro-Palestinian mouthpiece. Did you not feel tension in her own opinions there? I felt it as a kind of nature vs nurture clash — Rachel finally feels at home with Her People, but the distinct harshness and Americanism of her mother’s parenting forces her to articulate what she sees as an incontrovertible moral good. That in comparison to Miriam, who is so beholden to family and community that she refuses to even come out. Like, neither being right but both being products of their environment that literally can never reconcile. Anyway, thrilled you read Milk Fed and can't wait to hear your response.

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